Inner Dynamics
MARS/JUPITER
You may well be an exciting person to be with because of your sharp intellect, optimistic nature and sense of fun. If you are a man, you will enjoy the company of your own sex, and be engaged in many activities, perhaps connected with sport or travel. You can excel in mental sparring contests and the thrill of debate. However there may be a tendency to pontificate, or generally make your opinions known in a rather dominating manner. Knowledge and understanding are strong motivating factors for you, so you like to sharpen your mind with discussion and involve yourself in cultural interests.
Women with this aspect are attracted to intelligent men, and often have attachments to foreigners. The most important motivation factor when choosing a man is his ability to expand her mental horizons - either through religious, political, philosophical or cultural interests. An intellectual watershed arises in the relationship, where the man is no longer able to satisfy the intellectual hunger of the woman. How this issue is dealt with is critical for the success of the relationship. The most important thing for both sexes is to take personal responsibility for ensuring constant intellectual or philosophical expansion and personal growth. Relationships would improve dramatically, if you were able to admit that sometimes you are wrong.
MARS/SATURN
As a child your spontaneity was probably hindered in some way, and there may have been difficulties with a father or brother connected with discipline and responsibility. Your upbringing may have been rather authoritarian, even to the point of physical violence. There may have been a strict moral code in the family. In later relationships you expect a lot of resistance, so you invest a lot of energy either in self-control, or in trying to impose your authority. Women with this aspect are often attracted to older men, who tend to become buried in their work. Often the relationship develops in such a way that the woman feels dominated - but this can be due to hidden unconscious needs to recreate the atmosphere of structure and discipline from childhood, and a refusal to discipline her own life. Men place a high priority on their professional life to the detriment of their emotional or sexual relations. A fear of being controlled can bring battles of will and severe confrontations. These problems resolve themselves with time, as you learn to relax and be kinder to yourself. Less work and more play and greater flexibility as regards
behavioral rules leads to more rewarding relationships.
MARS/URANUS
You are an extremely unpredictable person, and your fear of being limited by relationships makes you demonstratively aggressive when duty is required of you. Men with this aspect give their partner the impression that they can pack their bag and go at any time - in actual fact unpredictability is used as a threat to get their own way. Women with this aspect are attracted to unusual men, particularly from abroad or from some unique environment, - men who can promise excitement and freedom. There is a tendency to be enormously provocative and this can lead to explosive conflicts. This satisfies the ever-present craving for excitement in one way or another. To have peace in a relationship it is important to have some unusual interest or job which brings challenge and
fulfillment. A relationship will not provide this in any lasting way. If all goes well you are an exciting person to be with, always willing to take a risk or try something new.
MARS/NEPTUNE
There is no doubt that moral issues are a big challenge for you in your life. Early experiences may have inclined you to be wary of acting spontaneously and openly, and this can give rise to great misunderstandings and often deceit in relationships. Women with this aspect will often find themselves getting attracted to men who disappoint them, perhaps through lying or being unfaithful, or through alcohol misuse. Men have problems regulating their material and sexual appetites.
Women are attracted to creative, artistic or spiritual men, who
fulfill their inner need to also develop these qualities. Whilst falling for a sensitive man however, there is paradoxically a fear of weaknesses in the male. An exaggerated focus on these supposed weaknesses and a fear of being lied to by the man actually causes the man to conceal his true desires and needs. This can result - in extreme cases - in a double life. The man with this influence cannot find satisfaction in simple material and sexual gratification, no matter how hard he tries - and he tries hard. Happiness comes when both sexes learn that satisfaction is only to be found in creative or spiritual goals - partnership will not in itself provide it. Dissatisfaction has to be seen as a divine discontent which drives the person to higher achievements.
MARS/PLUTO
You have experienced a number of deep traumas in your childhood through events which may be secret or repressed. This can be linked to the influence of men - particular your father or a brother. Often a stepfather or half-brother plays an important role. Sometimes a sexual theme is involved. You may also have been deeply affected by someone who had a deep psychological problem. In some way your will was totally overridden at some point in your childhood, and you are profoundly affected by the humiliation this incurred. It is also possible that you experienced your father - who was dominating, but weak - being humiliated in some way.
Later on, intimate relationships are characterized by great intensity and power games. There is a need for a strong partner who can stand up and fight his or her own battles. Women with this aspect are profoundly attracted to magnetic and powerful men. Such a relationship develops predictably: where the man initially starts as the dominating figure, the woman begins to discover weaknesses as time goes by, and in doing so loses respect. When the relationship ends, the roles have been reversed and the man often ends up in a humiliating position.
Men put too much focus on sexuality and the need to demonstrate masculinity. Jealousy and control can be dominating, though concealed, factors in love. The relationship tends to be marred by criticism of weaknesses and bitter discussions over influence. Often therapy can solve difficulties connected with the complex psychological projections involved in this kind of relationship. As time goes by you will discover the benefits of your enormous energy resources and latent power. As a result you stop struggling against imagined power misuse, and simply no longer feel threatened. Deep satisfaction comes from discovering psychological and psychic talents.
MARS/NODE
You can portray the essence of masculinity or dynamism in your nature, probably as a result of hard-won battles at key points in your life. This may mean that you are pushy or aggressive in your social relationships, with little regard for opposition, though you may try to choose a life in which you shun confrontation. Coming to terms with the power of sexuality - its pleasures and obsessive quality - is a major life challenge. Dealing with conflict is also a lifelong dilemma for you, as you are denied the opportunity of indulging your weaknesses, and are forced to seek a position of strength in your dealings with others.
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